Sunday, February 5, 2012

Christmas Letter

Most people following this little blog received a copy of this in the mail, but thought I would share online as well. Happy Holidays and Happy New Year! 


As thoughts fill your mind of the excitement in the last few years of Christmas “novels” created by the Bozard family, just wait until you get through this one! Of course, everything must go in order and you will just have to wait for the good stuff (see paragraph 7 for those of you that are already scanning the letter).  We rang in the New Year with some friends in Asheville while planning our winter vacation trip back to Stehekin to spend time with old friends.  It was great to visit and have a relaxing week there in February will a little bit of snow.  Yes, we did get the news that several feet of snow fell to the ground a few weeks after we left.
The year was off to a relaxing start as we enjoyed the remodel of our house on Harrison Road and continued to walk past the few projects still on the “to do” list; those projects still remain on that list.  It is important to keep a few things undone at all times to keep the list going.  No one wants a life without a “to do” list.  Our backyard still remained empty after the passing of Lady when we lived in Stehekin, so we decided to go dog-shopping since we didn’t have any travel plans for a few months. We settled on a four month old Boykin Spaniel and her name was set at Bailey.  There were quite a few discussions about names, but this one fits her for sure. She has proved to be a great dog and sits at my feet now as I type.  Her preference is to lounge around the house and chew up all toys presented, even though Steven has her in training as a duck dog. Thoughts of her in that cold pond this winter on duck hunting ventures make me laugh; she will get used to it one way or another.  Every time the front door opens and our keys rattle, she runs to the door ready for a road trip.
The spring was relaxing and we spent a few weekends in North Carolina with family including a weekend to celebrate my grandfather’s 85th birthday.  It was a great celebration and he managed a few smiles to let us know he appreciated the presence of all his children and grandchildren.  Even though the disease of Alzheimer’s set in long ago, his heart still shined bright as we gathered around.  The next time we all gathered around him was the weekend before Thanksgiving as people shared thoughts and childhood memories.  He has spent the past 8 months at my mother’s house with amazing caregivers and a few lucid moments here and there.  On November 21st, the following Monday, he left this world to join Jesus, but not before he opened his eyes, looked up, and smiled.  It was a year of goodbyes on both sides of the family.  Steven’s nana fell in February resulting in several hospital stays to follow.  She slowly slipped away a few months after her fall with family surrounding her one night in the hospital.  They had made plans to take her back home so she could be in familiar surroundings and the thought was enough for her to let go of life here on earth.
Speaking of family, mine is doing well as mom and Steve still live in North Carolina splitting time between the farm and the beach house. Heather and Kip are raising two beautiful children willing to share hugs with anyone and their opinions as well!  Steven’s mom continues to teach at the kindergarten in Orangeburg while Sharon and Michael’s kids get bigger by the minute. All three kids are back in public school and enjoying the plethora of options for afterschool activities. 
Our summer was filled with Sundays on the lake and a few cookouts here and there.  Another trip to Washington was put on the books as our friends had set a wedding date for July. Of course we had to head up to Stehekin for a few days to say hello to friends while on the west coast.
Jobs remain the same for us this year with Steven working at the cotton gin. His days are long right now with many hours a week put in on the job. This spring a schedule change was nice as he was able to work more hours each day and take Fridays off.  I continue to work at the hospital three days a week while learning how to run a business.  With three employees under the company I call Kid Connections, I enjoy the responsibilities as an employer and the weekly paperwork process that comes along with the title.  My list of learned skills from the year is long and every minute of it has been enjoyable.  I continue to pick up my camera on weekends for photo sessions here and there.  The holiday sessions this year numbered about 20 and the kids were great! I love seeing them grow from year to year and capturing those moments of interaction between siblings and parents. 
As the summer came to an end and the fall began, we started planning for another change in our lives. The expectancy of a baby! Yes, we are pregnant and due on March 15, 2012.  Right now I am 6 months pregnant and my belly grows more each day. The baby is very active and likes to kick, flip, jump, hiccup, and move in any other way possible while in the womb.  I love every one of these little movements and it warms my heart to think of this upcoming change for our family. We shared the news with our family in August as they came to visit for a weekend and found a crib in the extra bedroom. All the nursery decorations are done now with black and white fabric creating the curtains, pillows, and a crib skirt.  My sewing machine and I got to know each other very well as I set out to complete those projects a few months ago.  Mom surprised me with an early Christmas present; a serger to make diapers.   The plan is for this little baby’s bottom to be covered in cloth, so I will let you know how it goes.  It is crazy to plunder through websites and see the wide variety of types, styles, and designs.  It has been fun to plan for this little one that will enter the world in March. Steven and I are thankful for this baby that has already been such a blessing to us in so many ways.  No, we are not going to find out the gender even though we have enjoyed several ultrasounds to see the movements of this little one.  
We are moving. Yes, you read that correctly: I am 6 months pregnant and packing the house to move.  I must admit that a move was not in our plans for 2011 and only discussion had occurred about possibly changing locations in 2012, but maybe not until 2013.   Anyway, we came across an awesome house in the country and the process was off to a rapid start.  Our closing date is set for December 8th with plans to move on December 10th, Steven’s birthday. I say it is a pretty good birthday present, don’t you think?  The house is situated on a bluff with 10 acres about 30 minutes outside of Columbia.  It is a log cabin with a full basement with plenty of space for guests.  Steven and I discuss upcoming plans to have parties and family gatherings there in the years to come.  We are excited to say the least!  So, I will hit the print button on the computer after completing this letter the night before closing.  I figure I better wait until the last minute, just to make sure everything will be finalized.  You can get a sneak peak of the house on our Christmas photo and will just have to plan a visit to get a complete tour of the inside.  The yard will include a garden, chickens, and a few dogs to start.  The house will be empty at first as the square footage is greater than our current house, but soon furniture and fun will fill each room.  Good thing the sewing for the nursery is complete; all ready to be packed up and relocated to the new house. 
The plans for the week: complete all Christmas shopping, relax, reflect on our happenings from 2011, and daydream about the upcoming changes in 2012. We send prayers for a safe holiday season and hope for many moments shared with family and friends for each one of you.  Keep Christ on your mind this Christmas and at the center of your life for each New Year to come.  God bless you as He continues to bless us each day! 
                                                                                         Steven, Heidi, and Baby Bozard

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